The Optimistic Writings

Life is more than what you feel, see and imagine. We all have been searching for that one person or thing in our lives who can make us feel being loved. Some of us are fortunate enough to have someone who supports them honestly, and with whom they can share their wounds. But there are some who didn’t get receive this support, love and care, and are still struggling with their inner wounds and seeking someone or something to help them in healing those.  This article is for all of those who feel emotionally detached, who didn’t receive enough love and care, and are living with some unhealed wounds in their hearts. It is a compilation of spiritual, psychological learnings of many great leaders and has some of my personal ways of dealing with the same. Let’s understand why we seek emotional dependence in the first place. We all have been born and brought up in different environments, families, and religions. All of this builds who you are today. But life isn’t this easy and things happen.

I’ve been working so hard for years to get into this company, I’ve spent sleepless nights to get this job, I’ve lost everything else for getting this work, I've been trying my best since long, but I feel disappointed, broken and brutally hurt that after being all of this hard work and constant attempts why I still don’t see the results.  These are some of the questions which keep on revolving in our minds in this career driven age. Is that only You? No, we’re all together in this. All struggling and working hard to make the best of our skills and being disappointed when we couldn’t.  We’re in the 21st century, living in the era of technology and advancement, everything so perfect, well organised, and humans are being extremely growth driven. Once Steve Jobs, co-founder of Apple said, “ I want to put a ding in the universe ” and it looks like all of us took it really seriously. Some individuals are really doing well in their work, while some are struggling, and some if not struggli